Life is not about the numbers, it’s about doing things you LOVE!

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My newsletter went out today. I wanted to share it with you. But first I’m going to say that numbers do effect certain things in terms of a bloggers life. Well of course it plays a huge roll with the amount of people you reach out to. The more people the better right? I totally understand and I’m not complaining. I’m just saying that it shouldn’t’ be the focus of your online existence or you will drive your self crazy. lol

Not EVERYTHING should be the focus of how many likes and followers you have. It shouldn’t be an obsession. It becomes so superficial. Being on line for me is about connecting with people in a positive and real, down to earth kind of way. It’s about sharing my story.

“Followers” and “likes” isn’t’ my driving force behind what I do.

I do appreciate them of course!

You should be passionate about your work and let the rest flow like water.

Does that make sense?

Let me just show you my newsletter and if you can please share your thoughts with me that would be great. You can also see it HERE. Just please remember I’m just trying to be positive and not offend anyone. I’m expressing my self with honesty. This is not focused on one person. It’s just the overall picture I’m getting online. I’m also learning, growing and living. 🙂


Happy Summer!

The nice weather is here and with the nice weather comes beautiful outdoor activities and spending time with my girls. I’m not going to be blogging as much this summer so I’ll be away until September. But don’t worry I’m still active on all my social media platforms. I’m also vlogging all summer. I really love vlogging because it feels really relaxing. I don’t like the editing part but I’m dealing with it.

I’m going to be honest here and say that it makes me really sad that people focus on numbers and followers on the internet. It’s always about statistics and who has the highest numbers. Lately i’ve been thinking that life is too important to focus on that. I’m more about having a wonderful experience and doing things I love and what makes me happy. If people decide to follow me I’m truly grateful but I’m not going to be upset or cry if I don’t get  “likes” and “followers”. Life is too important.

I’m truly grateful to all of you who support me and help me out. I actually have gotten to know a lot of my followers and I’m more about creating connections. Connecting with people, being real and down to earth. Life is not perfect, we are not perfect and it’s okay!  I hope this makes sense.


So I hope you join me on my VLOG Summer Adventures. I’m a mom, a wife and I like to live a simple and fun life. I don’t know what life has instore for me but I’m taking it one day at a time!

Have a magical and safe summer,


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10 thoughts on “Life is not about the numbers, it’s about doing things you LOVE!

  1. super happy for you and your vlogs and very relaxing xo
    my fave so far – when you were in the backyard xo watering your flowers xo

    #dowhatYOULLOVE XO

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  2. Yes it’s important to not lose sight of why you do any of this! How can one quantify something like meeting new people through the blog / social media? It’s about the quality of interactions for me.

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  3. Thanks so much love! It’s very hard not to get caught up on the numbers. But numbers don’t reflect on the quality or passion of ones work. I know people work hard to get a following and of course its important for influencers but our work and passion as bloggers should be focused on the work we do. It’s okay to gain followers, it is important but its not the focus. I hope I make sense. 🙂 Thanks so much love.


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